covering a wide spectrum, revolving around others
that create a desire to help, experience emotions
similar to those of others, knowing what is felt and
thinking other people, blurring the line between
himself and others. While Mikulincer et al. (2001)
states that there’s relation between attachments,
strengthened emphatics reactions, and inhibited
personal distress.
The facts found during the implementation of
social guidance on indicators of empathy are indeed
lower. This is indicated by some LKSA Nugaraha
adolescents who tend to be unable to feel the
discomfort and anxiety when seeing the suffering of
others. Efforts can be done to grow the empathy of
LKSA adolescents is lead to awareness of care for
others around him. Sharon express that awareness of
the existence of others is an important factor for
developing empathy in adolescents. In addition,
cognitive maturity factors affect the ability of
empathy. To understand the condition of others is
necessary maturity of cognition is not just a process
of thinking, so it can understand the suffering of
others without having to actually experience it.
Facts found during the implementation of social
guidance on indicators of empathy concern, there are
adolescents who separate themselves in groups, but
his friends ignore it. Hurlock (1974) states
adolescents in association with peers required three
socialization processes, namely: (a) learning to
behave socially acceptable; (b) learning to play an
acceptable role, and (c) social development.
According to Sharon (1999: 208), there are two
factors that affect empathy, namely cognitive
maturity and awareness whereabouts of others.
Cognitive maturity factors affect the ability of
empathy. Because to understand the suffering of
others is necessary maturity of cognition is not just a
process of thinking, so as to understand the suffering
of others without having to actually experience it. By
realizing that others are different, one can not live
without those around them, it is hoped that there will
be an attitude toward others.
Based on the description of the initial condition of
the study sample, adolescents who entered into low
empathy category have not shown empathy ability.
Indicators that appear in this category are 1) learners
are indifferent to the feelings or conditions of others;
2) adolescents are unable to sense and adapt
themselves to the feelings or conditions of others; 3)
adolescents are unable to communicate their feelings
both verbally and non verbally, 4) adolescents are
incapable of understanding and thinking about the
experiences of others and not yet able to provide
solutions to the problems of others.
4 CONCLUSIONS
This research produces social guidance to develop
adolescent empathy, which has been developed
theoretically and empirically. To produce such
guidance, a research procedure that includes
preliminary studies, social guidance development,
social counseling feasibility tests, and social guidance
trials are conducted. The results of the study show
that social guidance has proven to be effective for
developing almost all empathy indicators, except for
personal distress indicator (affective aspect).
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