Self Esteem is an evaluation made by
individuals and habits of seeing themselves
especially about acceptance or rejection, and an
indication of the magnitude of individual
confidence in capability, One’s success,
significance, and worthiness of himself. The level
of Self Esteem is a "personal judgment" of a
valuable or meaningful feeling expressed in the
individual's attitudes toward him. thus, aspect of self
esteem studied in this research is capability aspect
that is showing a high performance to fulfill
requirement to reach achievement where level and
duties depend on age variation of someone.
successness of a person's ability to manage and
control behavior and gain recognition of the
behavior from others. The significance refers to the
concern, attention, affection and expression
received by someone from others who show the
acceptance and popularity of the individual from the
social environment. Worthiness implies an
obedience to the moral and ethical standards and
religions in which the individual will stay away
from behaviors that should be avoided and conduct
the behavior permitted by morals, ethics and
religion.
The beginning of a healthy self-esteem coaching
is to teach students to understand who they are,
especially with regard to the advantages and
disadvantages of the students. In the context of
statistical learning, the environment in question is a
statistical learning activity that involves the active
participation of all students in implementing the
teacher's teaching. The goal is no other to provide a
successful experience through awarding (rewards that
become part of the feedback) to each student so that
each student is able to appreciate the advantages
possessed by each student.
A person with high self esteem tends to be more
attractive to have a good relationship with others and
can make good impressions than those with low self
esteem (Braumeister, 2003). In a group, a person with
a high self-esteem tends to be more daring to appear
and critical of his group. Although not directly
affecting self-esteem can also affect the nature of
one's leadership. This is because someone with high
self esteem tends to be superior than those who have
low self esteem.
According to Alhadad (2010), students with high
self-esteem look more optimistic, confident, and
always be positive about everything, also against the
failure that happened. At the time of failure, students
with high self-esteem tend to see the failure not as the
end of everything, but make the failure as a valuable
experience to move forward. Looking at the mistakes
that have been done before as a valuable lesson and
provision to achieve better results, it is because the
success basically achieved at this time can not be
separated from mistakes that have been done before.
Students with high self esteem, able to appreciate
himself and see the positive things that can be done
for success in the future.
On the contrary, students who have low self-
esteem believe and see that he is weak, unable to do
nothing, not have the ability, tend to feel himself
always failed, unattractive, disliked, and lose the
appeal to life. Students with low self esteem tend to
be pessimistic about life and opportunities. They do
not see a challenge as an opportunity, but rather as an
obstacle, give up easily before trying and when they
fail, blame themselves and blame others. It is possible
that the low self-esteem of students can negatively
affect their learning achievement. Therefore, self
esteem needs to get special attention from parents and
teachers.
Teachers and parents should focus on developing
student self esteem, because with high self esteem
many positive things that can arise from the students.
Braumeister (2003) also stated that high self esteem
is a part of good student achievement in school.
According to Alhadad, low student achievement in
mathematics lessons tends to frustrate students.
Students will assume that forever they will not be able
to achieve a good achievement in math lessons. When
dealing with mathematical problems, students feel
desperate and think they can not solve them, even
before they make the most of their efforts to solve
them. Attitudes like this certainly can negatively
affect the development of students in the learning
process. Therefore, teachers as educators have an
important role in building and developing self esteem
students.
One effort to develop self esteem of students is by
giving responsibility to students in learning (Muijs
and Reynolds, 2008). Teachers can assign tasks to
students in the form of challenging issues and give
them confidence and convince them that they can
accomplish these tasks well. Teachers can reward or
appreciate the results of student work. even they are
simple ideas, opinions, questions, or results obtained
by students, teachers still give appreciation to
students wisely. When students make mistakes, the
teacher must make sure that the error is part of the
learning process, not a failure. With this process,
students will feel appreciated, needed, and will slowly
awaken confidence and pride in themselves.
In addition, students' learning environment also
affects students' self-esteem. As according to Tran
(2012) that the learning environment is very