the goods. Kids should know there's belongings
brother, sister or parent and others around the
child who can not use the child as he wishes.
Child can borrow stuff, but it should be on the
owner's permission. In this case the child will
learn the importance of sharing. However, in
addition to the child learn to share child must
also know where items may be shared.
8. Patience
Forms child's independence in patience can be
seen when the child patiently wait their turn, like
when to borrow toys from friends and line up
before entering the classroom. In addition,
children can begin to refrain from force and
requires parents to fulfill his desire immediately.
9. Ability to make decisions.
Decisions taken children in various ways, for
example, to take food, choosing his own clothes,
and put on his own shoes. It is part of the child's
independence.
10. Have confidence in doing his work.
The ability of children is closely associated with
the concept of self. A child who is capable of
doing the task itself certainly has a strong self-
confidence. For example, children are able to tie
his own shoe laces that although it is done with
a long time.
11. Responsible for what he did.
Independence of a child can be seen and
responsibilities that children have towards what
children do for example, children settle back
toys that have been used in its place. Children
are able to organize their own lives and the
child, for example: eat, go to the bathroom,
wash, clean up, and put his own clothes.
Children can implement the ideas of their own
children and determine the direction of the
game. Children can take care of things in the
house and is responsible for a number of
domestic jobs, regulate how fun and
entertaining themselves in a groove that is
allowed, and manage their own pocket money.
Children can organize themselves outside the
home, for example in school, completing
homework, prepare all the needs of social life
outside the home. Children are able to take care
of other people, both inside the home and
outside the home, for example, look after
younger siblings when parents are working on
something else. Kids can perform all activities
on its own although it remains under the
supervision of an adult. Kids can make choices
and decisions in accordance with the views, the
views itself obtain it from seeing the behavior or
actions of people in the vicinity. Children are
able to socialize with others without the need to
accompany their parents. Children can control
his emotions even be able to empathize with
others.
Thoha (Winarsih 2010: 21) states that the factors
affecting the independence of the child one of them is
parenting parents. Parents are the neighborhood
closest to the child, the person becomes an example
or a figure for children. Self-reliance is not the
abilities that a child from birth, but rather the result of
the learning process. Basri (2000: 53) states that
independence is the result of education. Kartawijaya
and Kuswanto (2000: 1) argues that the independence
of the child should be nurtured since infancy with
consistent discipline that can develop independence
held intact. Briefly said that independence is the result
of the learning process. As a result of learning,
independence in a person can not be separated from
heredity and environmental factors.
Ali and Asrori (2004: 118) states the development
of self-reliance is also influenced by environmental
stimuli other than by the potential that has been
owned since birth as the offspring of parents. Self-
reliance is formed by the interaction between heredity
and environment. Self-reliance can thrive when given
the opportunity to develop the innate potential
through constant practice and done early. The
learning process begins from the immediate
environment that is family, and the experience gained
from various environments outside the home. If the
environment supports the growth of independence in
childhood and adolescence will develop it on
standalone personal intact form in adulthood. And if
the contrary teenagers grow into a always depend on
other people, always hesitant in taking decisions and
even did not dare to take the responsibility
themselves. Self-reliance is growing in every period
of development with age and increase capability.
As a result of the attainment of independence and
learning process is influenced by many factors,
generally can be classified into two groups: internal
and external factors. Internal factors include
everything that brought children from birth which is
a basic provision for the child's development further
include talent, intellectual potential and the growth
potential of the body. The external factor is all the
circumstances or the influence that comes from
outside himself, often referred to as environmental
factors (Basri, 2000: 53-54).
Factors that affect the attainment of independence
in addition to physiological factors and psychological
condition, as well as the pattern of the Foster Parents
in the family. Family environment plays an important
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