riurungngi sibawa sirik. Naiya pappanrena matutu-e.
Naiya ripainungengngi tike. Ricapu-capui tau-e
sibawa ninik” (Sikki, 1998). It means that it is not
easy to applu an honesty because it is likened as a
wild bird, and we do not know how to tame it. To
tame a wild bird, it have to be caged with ‘a shame
feeling’ (siri’). Its meal is awareness. Its drink is
heart. Then it is cared with an anxiety and
thoroughness. That is an illustration of human ability
that is based by an honesty, awareness and shame
feeling if he want to act unreasonable. According to
other expression: “Naiya ponna lempuk-e, tellu
mpuwangengngi. Seuwana, iyapa napodai kadopi
molai. Maduwanna, iyapa napogauk i kadopi
lewuruwi, ri munripi taue. Matelluna, tennaenrekie
waramparang ripalolo, tennasakkarengi ada-ada
maddiolona” (Sikki, 1998). It means that there are
three cause of honesty, the first is said what is able to
be done, the second is done what is able to be
answered, the third is never accept any bribe and does
not deny any thing has been said.
According to the expression above, it seems that
an honest person will not as easy to determine a
matter, however he will think it, say it then do it.
Likewise, an honest person will never accept any
bribe which tend to a corruption, and will never deny
what he has said because he is truly aware that the
value of what he has said is not only depend on the
beauty of his words, but also the most important is his
ability to prove what he has said (Hall, 1993). The
nowadays situation is further different. Many people
are easy to promise, but it is very difficult to prove
what they have been promised (note the campaign
moment towards legislative, president, governor,
regent or mayor, even a headman elections)
(Harshman & Augustine, 2013).
Expression that shows pride (read: siri’) of South
Sulawesi people that are frequently found in the
heritage media stated that, “Malai bukurapa ricauke,
Mappalimbang rimajeng ripangonroe” (means: It is
embarrassing to be defeated, killing to be conquered).
This expression is meant denotatively as reminder
that lost in the life struggle or fight because of forcing
state is common even it is embarrassing, but
subjection in the meaning of recumbency is an
extraordinary matter that is prohibited to be done.
While connotatively, the expression above can be
meant that it is better to die with honour than to live
infamy.
There is also a statement, “E makkunrai sappoi
alemu nasaba’ siriqmu, e worowane sappoi alemu
nasaba’ asabbarakengí” (means: Oh! Women, build
fences inside yourself for honour, Oh! Men, build
fences inside yourself with patience). According to
that statement, it can be explained that woman’s pride
is reflected from her good behavior by trying to guard
her honour both in the family nor society, thus she
well be spared from reproach. Likewise for a man, he
must have ability to refrain himself from provocation,
envy and emotion, especially for doing despicable
action by fortify himslef with patience (Janitra &
Prasanti, 2017). Therefore, in the South Sulawesi
society, pride is an inner value that must be guarded
and maintained. Moreover, it has been said expressly
that pride is a differentiator between human and
animal, therefore, people who do not have a shame
(pride) will be similar with animal.
In order to release them from any difficulty
especially in fulfilling ther basic needs, both in case
of meal and housing, all the capable people should be
corncerned and and help them. The help for people
who have problem in their basic needs usually in the
form of looking for a productive occupation, so they
are able to enjoy their life in the future days, for
example is ask them to take care the field, farm,
livestock and so on. Some expressions that are related
to the young live, either it is related to romance or
love affairs, this cannot be separated from the actors
of the heritage media in South Sulawesi. One of
advice expression which is known and become the
main consideration for the youth before deciding to
get married. The expression is, “Nappai tauwe
makbawine narekko naulleni maggulilingiwi
dapurengnge wekkapitu” (Sikki, 1998). It means that
‘A man is allowed to married if he is able to round the
kitchen seven times’.
On the expression above, the emphasis word is
‘kitchen’. The metaphore of kitchen signify a
connotative meaning. The word of ‘kitchen’ on that
sentence is a symbol toward the main problem in the
married life that is the basic needs, so it can be defined
that that expression reminds the youths who
determine to get married to always prepare
themselves well, such as have a permanent job
(permanent income) so they can maintain the
household needs (Kenny, 2005). Related to that
matter, the words ‘seven times’ reflect the number of
days in a week. It can be explained that the youths
must be able to bear their family living all the time
continuously (Lewis & Wigen, 1997).
There also a sentence, “Cecceng ponna, canga-
canga tengngana, sapiripalek cappakna” (Sikki,
1998) (See aslso Sureq Magazine edition II/V/2008
page 39). It means, unfair at the beginning, selfish at
the middle, lost altogether as the result. This
statement is also become a philosophy or life
guidance for the South Sulawesi people that means a
greedy character will begin a desire to be selfish, then