into the struggle to recognize the standards that
should be used to assess potential alternatives to
perform in the child’s best interests. Mnookin’s then
argued that (Alston, 1994):
“The choice of criteria is inherently value laden; all too
often there is no consensus about what values should inform
this choice. These problems are not unique to children’s
policies, but they are especially acute in this context
because children themselves can’t speak for their own
interests.”
From the discussion above about this principle,
then it can be said that to implement the principle,
case by case has to be assessed to find the criteria and
determine what is best for the child. In case of
divorce, the judge should look into the child’s views
and aspirations, the child’s identity, personal history
and background, the family environment, relations,
situations of vulnerability, and so on. The morality
and character of the party can be a consideration
besides the financial ability to determine to whom the
right of custody will be given.
Furthermore, several principles or theories are
considered important to determine the custody of a
child, namely theory of justice, theory of certainty,
and legal expediency (Alston, 1994). These theories
are very essential but certainly it is not easy to apply
them in balance. In practice, the judge will put the
legal expediency at first to give legal protection for
the child. This theory best fits the principle of best
interest of the child. This theory relates to the growth
and future of a child, therefore, a judge will consider
the situation case by case to determine the custody of
a child that will give benefit the child. The closeness
of a child with his or her parents will be taken into
consideration by the judges.
The Act on Child Protection mentions that
children are an inseparable part of sustainability of
human life and the continuity of a nation and state.
Therefore, every child needs to get the widest
opportunity to grow and develop optimally
physically, mentally, and socially. It is necessary to
carry out legal protection to provide children
prosperity by guaranteeing the fulfilment of their
rights without discriminatory treatment. Article 14
states that in case a separation must happen between
a child and the parents, each child is entitled:
a. to meet and have personal relationship
permanently with the two parents;
b. to get parenting, maintenance, education, and
protection for the growth process from both
parents according to ability, talent, and his or her
interest;
c. to obtain life funding from both parents;
d. to obtain other children’s rights.
As an example, in a Court Decision Number
312/Pdt.G/2014/PN.Mdn, the judge decided to give
the right of custody to the mother. This case
concerned the divorce of an Indonesian citizen with a
Filipino citizen. Their marriage was held in the
Philippines and has been registered in Indonesia so
that it is valid under Indonesian law. The judge's
consideration in this decision to give custody to his
mother was based on the Marriage Act that, a divorce
does not terminate the relationship of the child and his
or her parents. Both father and mother are still obliged
to educate and nurture their child that must be
conducted for the best interest of the child. Regarding
the problem that the parents were from different
nations and had different citizenships, that
consequently would live separately in different
countries, and that their child still cannot decide
herself with whom she or he would choose to live, the
judges were in the opinion that for the best interest of
the child who was still 1 year old and to get continuity
of routine and regular care, the right of custody was
given to one of the parents, namely the mother.
In this case, the financial ability was not the only
factor considered by the judges. The judges argued
that the child needed special child care both
physically and mentally. The fact in general shows
that a one year old child who is still in the baby
category, is very close to his or her mother, who had
recently given birth and even still breastfed him or
her. For this reason, the judges decided to give the
right of custody to the mother who was Filipino
Citizen until the child is 18 years old. This is also
pursuant to a Court Decision Number 126 K/Pdt/2001
on 28 August 2003 that stated that if there is a divorce,
the underage child care should be left to people
closest and familiar with the child, namely Mother.
This Court Decision Number
312/Pdt.G/2014/PN.Mdn also determined the
frequency of meetings between the child and the
father to maintain the relationship between the child
and the father.
5 CONCLUSION
As a conclusion, there are several legal consequences
emerge as a result of transnational marriage
dissolution. Firstly, both parents still have civil
relation with the child and they are still obliged to
nurture and educate the child as well as they can. The
living expenses shall be borne by the father, but the
mother also can be responsible for this also when the
father cannot fulfil the obligation. Secondly, the
principle of the best interest of the child is prioritized