father's appeal and refused to order the children's
return to the mother. Court of Appeal Simon Brown,
Ward and Sedley LJJ explained at p.193:
“It was necessary to establish why the child objected
to returning to Spain, her age and degree of maturity
and, considering the strength and validity of the
child's views, whether it was appropriate to take
account of her objections. A review of the evidence
from doctors, of the child's own letters, of oral
evidence on her maturity and objections, and of
additional evidence as to her state of mind, led to the
conclusion that the child was fearful of returning due
to her mother's drink problem, that she was mature
beyond her years given the burdens that she had had
to carry and that, although coloured by her father's
hostility to her mother, her views were genuine, as
was demonstrated by the consistency of her approach
and the expressions of love for the mother contained
in correspondence. In all the circumstances the court
was compelled to take account of the child's clear and
reasoned views. In deciding whether to exercise the
discretion to refuse to order the child's return, the
spirit and purpose of the Convention also had to be
considered, but in this case did not override the
respect to be paid to the child's wishes. Regarding the
younger child, the evidence was sufficiently clear and
compelling to conclude that he would be placed in an
intolerable situation if he were to be returned to Spain
alone. The two children had been through difficult
times together; the younger child had been dependent
on his sister and she had acted as his 'little mother' at
times.”
Although the judges in the case considered the
views of the children, the court did emphasize on the
father a duty to mend the broken bridges in the family
and to have the parental bond and contact with the
children and mother continued. Ross Mackay (2005)
supports that the process of separation can take a toll
on the mental health of separating parents, which can
in turn impair the quality of parenting.
Following the case of Re W (Abduction: Child's
Objections) [2010] 2 FLR 1165, wherein the
relationship between the parents was troubled, and
marked by occasional violence and problems with
drink, for which each blamed the other. Eventually,
the mother secretly removed the three children from
the family home in Ireland and brought them to
England, without the father's consent. The father
responded by travelling to England; he remained
there for a number of months, obtaining a job and
attempting to salvage his relationship with the
mother. However, a trial period of reconciliation
ended after only a few weeks, following another
violent incident. The father then went back to Ireland
and applied for the children's return. The mother
accepted that the removal had been wrongful, but
argued that the father had acquiesced in the children
remaining in England, that there was a grave risk of
harm to the children if they were to return to Ireland,
and that it was appropriate to 'take account' of the
objections of the children, now aged 8, 6 and 3, to a
return to Ireland. The two older children spoke to the
Children and Family Court Advisory and Support
Service (CAFCASS) officer together; the officer
reported that the children had given a believable
account of violence by the father towards the mother
and towards them, and had told her that they were
frightened of the father; the children had stated
categorically that they did not want to return to
Ireland, were upset at the prospect of doing so, and
wanted, if it was necessary to return, to move to an
address far away from the father and unknown to him.
The judge found that there was no acquiescence, but
that the children had strong objections to a return and
that the older two children were not too young to have
their views considered. Judge concluded that she
should exercise her discretion not to return the two
older children, and that, therefore, as the youngest
child would be placed in an intolerable position if he
were returned alone, none of children should be
returned. The father sought leave to appeal, arguing
that the views of the 6-year-old child should not have
been considered, that the evidence of the children's
objections was in any event too thin, and that the
judge had failed to refer to various relevant factors at
the discretionary stage of her judgment. The court
refused the leave to appeal. The children objected to
a return to Ireland and it was appropriate to take
account of their views.
In Re R (Child Abduction: Acquiescence) [1995]
1 FLR 716, 734, Millett LJ at p. 734 said, 'It is to be
observed that, if a child is not of an age and degree of
maturity which makes it appropriate to take his views
into account, he must be returned despite his
objections and without any further inquiry whether
his return is in his best interests. If, on the other hand,
he is of sufficient age and maturity for his views to be
taken into account, the Convention clearly envisages
that he will not be returned against his wishes, unless
there are countervailing factors which require his
wishes to be overridden.'
In B v K (Child Abduction) [1993] 1 FCR 382,
decided by Johnson J in October 1991, three children
were removed from Germany. The judge held that a
girl nearly 9 and a boy aged 7 had attained an age and
a degree of maturity at which it was appropriate for
him to take account of their views. As for the
youngest child, the court accepted the oral report from