Indonesia want to reduce or prevent the divorce
which contradict with the Indonesia Marriage Law
purpose.
The degradation of social values which is
happening in Indonesian society makes the number of
divorce case increase and become higher than before.
Because of the social development there is a mutation
of reasons of divorce. In many cases the court
approve the divorce proposal with reasons which are
not in Indonesia Marriage law.
In the court process the existence of mediation as
an attempt to prevent divorce is so important.
Furthermore the role of mediator in trial process is
also important to make the husband and wife who
want to have a divorce to re-think again about their
plan to have a divorce. The role of mediator is
expected to manage and create a win-win solution to
solve the husband and wife problem so the husband
and wife agree to not have a divorce. But if we see the
number of divorce case which is increasing constantly
we can assume that the government purpose to
suppress the number of divorce case is not success.
Although marriage is seen as physical and
spiritual bond between the husband and wife, there is
still high number of divorce case which basically
contradict to the definition and the purpose of the
marriage itself. The following questions will be
answered through this research by analysing how the
society see the meaning and goal of a marriage, what
is the common reason of society to have a divorce,
and how the role of mediator in mediation process
based on the response of society member who are
facing trial of divorce case in The Religious Court of
Medan.
2 RESEARCH METHODOLOGY
A normative legal research and an empirical approach
were used in this research by focusing on the primary
data which was supported by secondary and tertiary
data to analyze how the implementation or the
actualization of positive law in certain law
phenomenon. This focus is to make sure whether the
result of implementation of the positive in society life
is suitable with the law purpose or not based on its
specifications, it is categorized as an normative
empirical research the data that used in this research
was collected through direct observation and
interview to the society members who are facing the
divorce case in The Religious Court of Medan
(Medan Religion Court).
3 RESULT AND DISCUSSION
3.1 Personal Comprehension of Society
Members Who Had Filed a Divorce
Lawsuit to the Religious Court of
Medan Regarding the Significance
of Marriage Pursuant to the Law of
Republic Indonesia Act Number 1
of the Year 1974 on Marriage and
the Islamic law Compilation
The definition of marriage in pursuance of the first
article on Marriage Law No. 1 of 1974 is as stated
“Marriage is a physical and spiritual bond between a
man and a woman as husband and wife, having the
purpose of establishing a happy and lasting family
founded on the Belief in God Almighty.” Concerning
the interpretation of the law, it was mentioned that a
marriage is a physical and spiritual bond, marriage is
not only seen as an outward bond, but mental bond as
well. Hence emphasizing that marriage holds more
meaning than merely a connection physically but also
spiritually between the two parties. A physical bond
could be defined as a visible bond between the
husband and the wife and a spiritual bond is an
invisible bond perceived by only the pair. If this inner
bond does not exist in a marriage, the marriage can be
equated with an inert body.
The second essential meaning of marriage
pertaining to the intention of marriage, is to establish
a happy and eternal family. The word “bond” has
been defined as “a binding relationship” according to
the Great Dictionary of the Indonesian Language of
the Language Center (abbreviated in English and
Indonesian as KBBI) as the official dictionary of the
Indonesian Language. Whereas the word “lasting” in
KBBI means “to remain, does not shift for eternity”.
It can be concluded that a happy and lasting family is
an eternal bond that remains forever.
Both of fore mentioned essential meanings are
related to the third, that is “founded on the Belief in
God Almighty”. Aurelius Augustinus (354-430)
acknowledges the natural processes of the universe
take place according to God’s plan. The law
originated from God is termed as “Lex Aeterna” (the
eternal law). It should be understood that if the
husband and the wife carry out all their rights and
obligations according to the teachings of their
religion. Because all religions basically teach
goodness and virtue.
Based on data obtained through interviews with
30 respondents present at the Religious court of
Medan, it was found that 90% (27 people) regarded