victims of bullying with a moderate level of social
anxiety are capable of interacting with others. In daily
life, they tend to be aware when they are going to
interact with others. Furthermore, they will also
frequently give negative judgments about themselves
because they feel incapable or fearful if what they
demonstrate is not matched with what others think of
them.
The relationship between bullying and social
withdrawal in adolescents suggests that the more
severe the bullying is, the more severe the social
withdrawal experienced by adolescents. This is in
accordance with Erikson's psychosocial development
theory, which states that bullying causes emotional
changes, emotional crises, and ego imperfections,
which lead to unsettled self-adjustment. This impacts
on social interaction and causes social withdrawal.
Previous research by (Novalia, 2016) states that
victims of bullying are reluctant to go to school so
they can avoid the perpetrators who have committed
bullying. In addition, there are victims who want to
move schools because of the discomfort in the school
environment. Bullying causes adolescents to become
anti-social within the environment.
Some adolescents experience mild bullying yet
belong to the positive social withdrawal category.
Twenty (12.7%) of respondents experiences this. In
adolescents experiencing bullying, an adaptation
process with the surrounding environment and for
coping are needed so they can adjust. A total of 20
respondents said they have not been able to adapt
because of the bullying they have experienced by
their peers or seniors.
adapt to the impact after being bullied. They tried
to remain friends with their other peers and
wereconfident that they would not hurt them.
However, some respondents experienced bullying
and experienced social withdrawal. This is because
when they experienced bullying, they coped
negatively by self-blaming and blaming others.
In contrast, as many as seven respondents (4.5%)
said that they have experienced severe bullying yet
did not experience social withdrawal. Counselor
teachers said if adolescents experienced bullying
immediate adjustments were made by reporting to the
counselor teacher so action could be taken
immediately.
5 CONCLUSIONS
From the research results it can be concluded that
bullying experienced by adolescents is moderate and
mild. Bullying inflicted on the victim is verbal.
Bullying can be caused by poor peer environments
and school environments. Adolescents experience
moderate social anxiety. Social anxiety can arise
because adolescents feel embarrassed or humiliated.
For those experiencing social withdrawal,
adolescents avoid meeting friends who have bullied
them. The more severe the bullying experienced by
adolescents, the more severe the social anxiety they
experience. The more severe the bullying experienced
by adolescents, the more likely it is that adolescents
will experience social withdrawal.
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