depends on men or accentuates men as holders of
power, this kinship system is referred to as Patrilineal.
In Jamil bin Mu'ammar's poem, we can see how
the patrilineal kinship system is described despite
very little trace. This was evident from the events
arranged by Bustaina with Nubaiyyah bin Aswad,
Bustaina seemed unable to resist his father's wishes.
The stupid Nubaiyah has married a wife,
gently hide the cooked part of the body
The marriage of Nubaiah bin Aswad and Bustaina
was the will of the father, Haba 'bin Hunni. Arab
baduwi community kinship system that more
emphasizes men as holders of power makes Bustaina
unable to resist his father's wishes.
It also marks the weakness of thinking and the
presence of male domination in the tribal system and
Baduwi Arabic community relations, women must
submit to their father's wishes and will get reproach if
they reject their father's wishes. Besides that, the
pedigree of the Arabs who placed men further
strengthened the position of men in the kinship
system, so that in this position men were considered
as determinants of non-women.
4.3 Arab Women with Pure Love
The definition of love has not yet been found in the
right formulation and definition. The experts define a
lot in accordance with their respective perspectives or
in accordance with their respective experiences so
that the definition tends to be subjective. Fahruddin
Faiz love is an emotional human behavior in which
the form is the response or emotional reaction of a
person to certain stimuli. In this case love is
influenced by the interaction between lovers with
their environment, the ability of the lover, as well as
the type and strength of the driving element
(Fahruddin, 2002).
The word love in the Indonesian dictionary) can
mean: love, love, love, love (between men and
women), eager, hope, longing, hard-hearted,
(worried) [9]. This definition is mixed because love is
not only related to feelings of joy and pleasure, but
also associated with strong desires, high hopes of
distress and a state of worry about his lover and
worried that his love is not accepted by his lover.
In its development of Arabic literature in the
umayyad period, according to Yasser Qesawy there
were three types of Ghazal poetry, the first being
Ghazal as-Sharih which told of the glory and wealth
that surrounds the poet. The second is Ghazal Badawy
namely Ghazal poetry which spreads to rural
communities who are calm and away from war and
conflict between them. Third is Ghazal at-Tanafusy
(competition), namely Ghazal poetry as a form of
competition between Farazdaq and Jarir (Tim
Penyusun Kamus, 1990).
So from the description above, the syiirs of Jamil
bin Muammar can be classified as Ghazal Badawi
because of the similarity between the shiirs of Ghazal
Badawy and the syiirs of Jamil bin Muammar.
However, specifically for syiir-syiir that emerged
from the Kabilah al-Udry, it is better known as Hub
Al-Udry or pure love.
The most interesting thing about the poems of
Jamil bin Mu'ammar and Bustaina is the statement of
the sanctity of their love as found in Syi'ir-syi'ir Jamil.
Almost all jamil syi'irs say about the sanctity of their
love, both since they first met when they were
mutually mutilated, since Bustaina was married to
Nubaiyah bin Aswad, since Jamil went to Yemen and
Egypt even until Jamil bin Mu'ammar died in Egypt,
syi'ir-shi'ir Jamil bin Mu'ammar all described the
sanctity of their love. That is what made Syi'ir-syi'ir
Jamil bin Mu'ammar famous for Hub al-Udry "or pure
love. The beautiful expression of Jamil's poems about
pure love appears in the following verse quotations:
Have you broken the promise of our love
and make me sad to part with you?
Will I be weak and cry because of separation?
Know that even my love for him is burning.
If you try to part with me,
know that I will not forget you, even my love is
stronger for
you.
The expression that is pure love that is beautiful
can be seen from Jamil's statement about his love for
Bustaina. The pure love phrase "Hub al-Udry" is
indeed very well known from the Jamil Kabilah. The
expression of the sanctity of love is when Bustaina is
married by his father with Nubaiyah bin Aswad. Jamil
then expressed his feelings of disappointment by
saying that Bustaina had broken their promise of love
and made him sad to part with him.
Jamil also expressed his pure love by saying he
would not cry because he separated from Bustaina,
farewell because Bustaina was about to be married to
Nubaiyah bin Aswad would never put out his love.
Jamil also revealed that Bustaina tried to split up for
him by accepting his marriage with Nubaiyah bin
Aswad, so Jamil would never forget Bustaina and
even Jamil's love power would be stronger.
Jamil's love statement above is a form of purity of
his love for Bustaina, news of Bustaina's marriage and
Nubaiyah bin Aswad due to his father's marriage will
never hinder Jamil's love feelings, even in this case
Jamil also questions the loyalty of Bustaina's love.
However, Jamil's pure love will never go out, but will
continue to ignite and be more determined by
Bustaina.