to go back to their country because the contract has 
ended or caught by the Malaysian immigration 
officer. The biggest problem is when the marriage 
has an offspring. The children from this marriage 
will oftentimes be neglected (Interview, October 4, 
2017) 
One of the example is Saripah (not her real 
name), a 30 years old woman from Bangkalan, 
Madura who married with a Pakistani worker 
through  sirri marriage. Previously, she came to 
Malaysia with her husband as fellow TKI. But after 
her husband had his second marriage there, she 
divorced him and later got married with a Pakistani 
worker. She got married in front of the Ustadz. From 
this marriage, she got 1 child who is currently still 
under five years old. Her husband has gone back to 
Pakistan and never sends any sustenance money to 
her and her child. To sustain their everyday needs, 
she works as a cleaning service in a clinic with the 
salary of 1000 ringgit a month. However, Saripah 
and her child didn’t have passport because of their 
illegal status (Interview, October 4, 2017). 
 Another example is Muhajirah (not her real 
name), a 34 year old woman from Bawean who 
married with a Rohingya refugee and has a 6 year 
old child so that her status changed from illegal to 
that of a refugee. Because of the refugee status, she 
won’t be caught by the Malaysian immigration 
officer when they conduct searches and her child can 
go to the school built by Malaysian government for 
the Rohingya refugees. However, she can not go 
outside of Malaysia and she can’t go back home to 
Indonesia (Interview, October 4, 2017) 
A side of the sirri marriage in front of the 
Ustadz, many of the TKI also went to the southern 
Thailand border to seek local Ustadz that can 
perform marriage ceremony for them. Usually this 
happened in the area bordering Thailand like the 
Kelantan region. According to Pak Mat, the village 
chief in Gua Musang, Kelantan, many illegal 
workers in local plantation go to the southern 
Thailand to get married. The reason behind their 
undocumented and illegal status is also unique. 
Many of them came initially as legal TKI but then 
became illegal ones because they ran away from 
their workplace because of several reasons such as 
salary, unprocessed permit, and other problems 
(Interview, October 5, 2017). 
For example, Mr. Andi (not his real name), a 
man from Bugis who resides in Gua Musang, 
Kelantan that later became an illegal worker who 
worked at the local plantation. His marriage is 
undocumented so that his eight children didn’t have 
any documents or birth certificates. His eldest son is 
17 year old and worked in the same plantation 
without having attended school. This is also the case 
with his other children (Interview, October 5, 2017). 
The couple who performed sirri marriage in 
Malaysia will be haunted by fear of getting caught 
by Malaysian Sharia police or the religious officer. 
For those who got caught, they will be sentenced 
with the fine and a 4 months jail time. Cases and 
services that were handled by Indonesian delegation 
through the KJRI Johor Bahru for the TKI included: 
First, man and woman working in different 
workplace, each has a right for dorm facility, to 
meet, and to do romance in a hotel. If the woman 
was pregnant while still working, she has the right to 
wear loose clothing so that she can hide her 
pregnancy status. After entering the 7th month of 
pregnancy or there is a rupture in the amniotic 
membrane, she was to be carried to the clinic and the 
report has to be made to the KJRI Johor Bahru to 
prepare for the childbirth. Medically, if there is a 
rupture in the amniotic membrane, there is an urgent 
need to quickly enter the childbirth process to 
prevent the imperfections when the baby was born. 
Second, women are mostly in the inferior position 
both in the sirri marriage and in the premarital 
relationship. For example if there was a man 
(coming from Indonesia, Bangladesh, Myanmar, 
Nepal, or Indian descent) who has a working 
contract in Malaysia and the contract is almost due 
to end invited a woman TKI for a night in the hotel, 
and after the contract ends the woman got pregnant, 
the child will be left abandoned (Zainal Abidin, 
2017: 1-20). 
As stated before, unofficial marriage or sirri 
marriage that is performed by TKI in Malaysia 
caused many problems such as the one regarding the 
status of their children’s nationality. Illegal migrant 
workers, like legal migrants, are used to doing sirri 
marriages. Even in practice they were only married 
by their friends who had minimal religious 
knowledge. As a result, among those who have been 
bound by marriage, there is a new contract or 
polyandry and then has children. This adds to the 
complicated problem of resolving its legal status. 
Prof. Ari Purbayanto asserts that the children 
of TKI born from sirri marriage in Malaysia are 
stateless or didn’t have any nationality. They can not 
be documented by giving them birth certificates 
(Interview, October 3, 2017). Even for childbirth 
procedure according to Mimin Mintarsih, the TKI 
won’t be accepted by the hospital. Generally, the 
hospital in Malaysia rejects to treat illegal TKI 
workers. These illegal TKI workers usually gave 
birth in private clinics which charge them very high.