to go back to their country because the contract has
ended or caught by the Malaysian immigration
officer. The biggest problem is when the marriage
has an offspring. The children from this marriage
will oftentimes be neglected (Interview, October 4,
2017)
One of the example is Saripah (not her real
name), a 30 years old woman from Bangkalan,
Madura who married with a Pakistani worker
through sirri marriage. Previously, she came to
Malaysia with her husband as fellow TKI. But after
her husband had his second marriage there, she
divorced him and later got married with a Pakistani
worker. She got married in front of the Ustadz. From
this marriage, she got 1 child who is currently still
under five years old. Her husband has gone back to
Pakistan and never sends any sustenance money to
her and her child. To sustain their everyday needs,
she works as a cleaning service in a clinic with the
salary of 1000 ringgit a month. However, Saripah
and her child didn’t have passport because of their
illegal status (Interview, October 4, 2017).
Another example is Muhajirah (not her real
name), a 34 year old woman from Bawean who
married with a Rohingya refugee and has a 6 year
old child so that her status changed from illegal to
that of a refugee. Because of the refugee status, she
won’t be caught by the Malaysian immigration
officer when they conduct searches and her child can
go to the school built by Malaysian government for
the Rohingya refugees. However, she can not go
outside of Malaysia and she can’t go back home to
Indonesia (Interview, October 4, 2017)
A side of the sirri marriage in front of the
Ustadz, many of the TKI also went to the southern
Thailand border to seek local Ustadz that can
perform marriage ceremony for them. Usually this
happened in the area bordering Thailand like the
Kelantan region. According to Pak Mat, the village
chief in Gua Musang, Kelantan, many illegal
workers in local plantation go to the southern
Thailand to get married. The reason behind their
undocumented and illegal status is also unique.
Many of them came initially as legal TKI but then
became illegal ones because they ran away from
their workplace because of several reasons such as
salary, unprocessed permit, and other problems
(Interview, October 5, 2017).
For example, Mr. Andi (not his real name), a
man from Bugis who resides in Gua Musang,
Kelantan that later became an illegal worker who
worked at the local plantation. His marriage is
undocumented so that his eight children didn’t have
any documents or birth certificates. His eldest son is
17 year old and worked in the same plantation
without having attended school. This is also the case
with his other children (Interview, October 5, 2017).
The couple who performed sirri marriage in
Malaysia will be haunted by fear of getting caught
by Malaysian Sharia police or the religious officer.
For those who got caught, they will be sentenced
with the fine and a 4 months jail time. Cases and
services that were handled by Indonesian delegation
through the KJRI Johor Bahru for the TKI included:
First, man and woman working in different
workplace, each has a right for dorm facility, to
meet, and to do romance in a hotel. If the woman
was pregnant while still working, she has the right to
wear loose clothing so that she can hide her
pregnancy status. After entering the 7th month of
pregnancy or there is a rupture in the amniotic
membrane, she was to be carried to the clinic and the
report has to be made to the KJRI Johor Bahru to
prepare for the childbirth. Medically, if there is a
rupture in the amniotic membrane, there is an urgent
need to quickly enter the childbirth process to
prevent the imperfections when the baby was born.
Second, women are mostly in the inferior position
both in the sirri marriage and in the premarital
relationship. For example if there was a man
(coming from Indonesia, Bangladesh, Myanmar,
Nepal, or Indian descent) who has a working
contract in Malaysia and the contract is almost due
to end invited a woman TKI for a night in the hotel,
and after the contract ends the woman got pregnant,
the child will be left abandoned (Zainal Abidin,
2017: 1-20).
As stated before, unofficial marriage or sirri
marriage that is performed by TKI in Malaysia
caused many problems such as the one regarding the
status of their children’s nationality. Illegal migrant
workers, like legal migrants, are used to doing sirri
marriages. Even in practice they were only married
by their friends who had minimal religious
knowledge. As a result, among those who have been
bound by marriage, there is a new contract or
polyandry and then has children. This adds to the
complicated problem of resolving its legal status.
Prof. Ari Purbayanto asserts that the children
of TKI born from sirri marriage in Malaysia are
stateless or didn’t have any nationality. They can not
be documented by giving them birth certificates
(Interview, October 3, 2017). Even for childbirth
procedure according to Mimin Mintarsih, the TKI
won’t be accepted by the hospital. Generally, the
hospital in Malaysia rejects to treat illegal TKI
workers. These illegal TKI workers usually gave
birth in private clinics which charge them very high.