Yogyakarta (13.20 percent), Central Java (11.11
percent), East Java (10.96 percent), Bali (10.07
percent), North Sulawesi (9.14 percent), South
Sulawesi (8.54 percent), West Sumatera (8.41
percent), West Java (7.58 percent), Lampung (7.50
percent), East Nusa Tenggara (7.40 percent), and
West Nusa Tenggara (7.38 percent). As for North
Sumatera based Susenas 2013 elderly figures of
6.33%. And when viewed from the results of BPS
Province through North Sumatera in year number
2014, which is 842,913 people. This figure will be
more interesting when noted further, namely the
increase in the number of population at the age of 65
+ than the aged 60 – 64 years. This indicates an
increase in the live figure chart, which is definitely
affecting the population structure. A study from Adib
Mohammad in the elderly in urban communities, in
1996 resulted in an interesting explanation. Based on
the experience of elderly life, how is the perception
of a place to live for them. From the study, the
findings were obtained that 56.0% of respondents
argued that elderly citizens should reside at home, and
the other 42% reside in the family and the 2% answer
does not know. No respondent wants to reside in the
orphanage Werdha. It shows that respondents almost
agreed unanimously that the elderly should be living
in a family environment, be it at home or in relatives
' homes. Elderly views are clearly legible in this
study. Elderly are still consistent to continue to
maintain and develop a living environment based on
the concept of family. In view the respondent is
depicted that the family agency of the House and its
inhabitants is the most beautiful and even a kind of
paradise for him. Because in the family, the elderly
can carry out normative functions such as:
reproduction, economics, education, religion, social
culture, love and compassion, protection and
preserving the environment. By carrying out the
function, the elderly will gain welfare of birth and
bathin (Adib, 2008).
So the house is the main choice of elderly dwell
sites. But in his actions, the elderly who live in the
family sometimes do not go smoothly. Still there is a
love of grief and treated less humane by her own
family. Some were forced to be servants in his son's
house, who had been treated thus caring. The family
is the smallest unit of the community consisting of the
head of the family and some who gather and live
somewhere under one roof in a state of
interdependence. The family has an important role in
nursing because the family provides resources that are
essential to providing health services for themselves
and others in the family. In the life of man in his
family, the act of horns or treatment in the family is
not detached from the culture that the family
embraced. As known, quoted from the cultural
definitions expressed by Prof. Koentjaraningrat (one
of the Indonesian anthropologists) that culture is the
whole system of ideas, actions and works of human
beings in the framework of the life of people who
belong to human beings by learning ". This suggests
that what man does is something that is a series of
ideas and actions that are recognized by the people as
something that has occurred hereditary in a long
period of time. Furthermore, it is called the cultural
value system which is the highest and most abstract
of the customs. Yet cultural values serve as guidelines
for human life in the community. On this basis then,
what family members do in family life is already lined
up in the culture that has occurred hereditary.
In creating a conducive family environment,
Clifford Geertz in 1963, once cited a priyayi saying
that, if the parents lived with his son, it is not good to
say that the parents "live by" with his son. It is
considered an insult to parents, but it is advisable that
young people or (children) who "live in" are parents,
even if they are in fact the opposite. While viewed
from the side of the family, in the view of the
respondent as a good and ideal. The idealistic size is
used cultural or customary values that apply in the life
environment of the respondent. The reason is that
staying at home and in the family allows family
members to be able to carry out the function of his
obligations "that has been taught religion" namely
respecting parents. The phenomenon gathered with
family and his grandson is increasingly interesting to
be analysed from the cultural side. Another case of
research in foreign countries that to delay the coming
of the forgetful (Javanese senile or buyuten), a kind
of disease feared by many elderly, then should the
elderly be brought close to the life of grandchildren.
In Javanese culture, there is often a behaviour that
gives the pet a gift to his grandchild. The pet can be
either chicken or rabbit. That habit, in Javanese
concept can be intended to delay the senility. In the
psychological sense, it can be interpreted also so that
the elderly can be close and familiar with their
grandchildren and grandsons. Likewise, the
granddaughter and a grand-grandmother can be close
to the elderly. (Sunarto, 1978). And based on that
concept, the researcher believes that the family
treatment of note Bane is a guided treatment of ethnic
culture. With this statement, researchers are very
interested to see Batak family treatment towards the
elderly.