state of communication effectiveness can be
classified in various elements (POSEE), namely: (a)
positiveness, high appreciation for someone and other
people, where both show a positive attitude; (b)
openness, a high level of openness where self-
disclosure can occur by itself, (c) supportiveness,
clear communication rather than evaluative
comments accompanied by acceptance of ideas from
others, (d) equality, not treating others, or letting
others treat someone higher or lower, in that case,
more likely to give the same appreciation, (e)
empathy, the ability to put themselves in the shoes of
others, trying to understand the difficulties of others
through their perceptions (Opit, 2017).
Some communication theories define
interpersonal communication in several ways.
Bochner and Cappella in Devito stated that each
approach would add a different perspective on the
nature of interpersonal communication, namely: (1)
in the component definition that interpersonal
communication can be explained by paying attention
to its main components. In this case, the main
component is sending messages to someone and
receiving messages from other or small groups. This
process creates an opportunity to get an immediate
response, (2) in a rational definition, interpersonal
communication is considered as communication that
occurs between two people who have a relationship
clear and pre-existing, (3) in the development
approach, interpersonal communication can be seen
as the result of advancement in communication, and
the last thing if there is improved personal
communication. This progress signalled that there
had been a development of interpersonal
communication. According to Liliweri there are four
principles of interpersonal communication in
communication, namely: (1) inevitably as social
beings, humans always interact and communicate
with others, (2) cannot be changed, that something
that has been conveyed is challenging to change
again, (3) complicated, because they have to use
symbols, mutually understandable languages, (4)
contextual, these do not occur in confined spaces and
are always in context: (a) psychological, (b) rational,
(c) situational, (d) environment, (e) culture.
Furthermore, Liliweri stated that aside from the four
principles, the function of interpersonal
communication is: (1) growing information, (2)
building a context of understanding, (3) forming
identity, (4) fulfilling interpersonal needs, and (5)
developing relationships Judging from the
arrangement of interpersonal communication is the
interaction or face-to-face communication between
individuals. The prefix “inter” means between, or in
between, thus interpersonal understanding is not one-
way communication. According to Arendondo,
interpersonal communication is an interaction that
takes place during a dialogue between two people or
a discussion between several people and is the active
participation of everyone involved in it. The methods
of communicating today have increased dramatically
with the emergence of broadcasting through
audiovisual, e-mail, internet, computers and mobile
phones. Ironically, more and more types of
technology are expanding the reach of
communication, but only a few use it to communicate
in the interest of increasing productivity and
performance. Sofo stated that (1) communication to
the frontline workers must come directly from the
supervisors, (2) communication must be face to face
(face to face), and (3) communication must be
specific to the local work area. In this regard, training
is needed for communication skills. It can be said that
individuals who are involved in interpersonal
communication in advance do not only use words and
patterns of grammar but also rely on nonverbal
gestures and complex body language to express their
intentions. In each culture, facial expressions,
patterns of action, and gestures have different
interpretive standards. This communication can add
an essential dimension to interpersonal understanding
in communication and as a contribution when the
recipient of the message provides feedback (Gardjito,
2017).
3.2 Research Interpretation
The process of exchanging and understanding
information between two or more people intends to
motivate or influence a person’s behaviour. In the
process, communication requires two essential
elements, namely the presence of senders and
recipients. The sender is someone who sends ideas or
concepts to others or information that expresses a
thought or emotion while the recipient is the person
intended to receive the message.
Communication is not only limited to
conversation, saying and reading. Real
communication occurs when a certain purpose has
been conveyed by one group and received by another
group. Therefore, communication is a meaningful
transfer of information to those involved in it.
Through interpersonal communication, a person
or group will be directly involved in a problem or
problem they face. Responding to the issue, they must
try to deal with it together to bring about an agreement
and understanding between the two parties. Thus,
dependence and concern arise between those who