other relatives, poor or needy present, muslim
are told to speak to them in an honourable way;
d) in Q.s. 33: 32, while addressing the noble
wives of prophet Muhammad, the wives were
commanded to talk appropriately when they
happen to converse with men.
3) Qaulan Baligha in Q.s An-Nisa: 63. Qaulan
baligha interpreted as an eloquent speech or the
right, the meaning is clear, bright, and reveals
exactly what she want sorcan also be interpreted
as saying that in terms of words correct. And
when viewed in terms of goals or domains it
touches can be interpreted as an effective speech.
4) Qaulan maysura in Q.s Al-Isra: 28. Qaulan
maysura means an easy word. It is mean that as a
greeting that makes other people feel easy, soft
tone, beautiful, fun, smooth, gentle and good, as
well as provide a sense of optimism for people to
talk to. Easy means of communicative language
that is understandable and contains words that
encourage others to continue to have hope. Soft
words are words that use the phrase and say with
reasonable or feasible. While that is gentle and
refined good speech that did not make other
people upset tau offended.
5) Qaulan layyina in Q.s Thaha: 44. This term
means gently speech which touch the heart and
pull to receive religious proselytizing. Ibnu
Katsir said layyinan is satire words. Al-Zuhaily
said “Then say to him (Pharaoh) by gently
speech (fraternal) and sweet to hear, did not
show the violence and encourage him with
gentleness words in order to more intersted
because he will feel afraid with the God
punishment through his tongue”. The purpose of
this is Moses and Harun leave coarse attitude.
The order to say by gently also written in al-
Hujurat: 2, Luqman: 19 and an-Nisaa: 158.
Shortly, the prohibition to say loudly words, the
prohibition to say bad words, and the command
to say soft words. With gentleness that there will
be a communication that will impact the contents
absorbed by people saying they're talking to so
that it will happen not only information but
nevertheless arrival will change the views,
attitudes and behaviors of people who talk to.
6) Qaulan Karima in Q.s al-Isra: 23. Qaulan
karima means noble word. A noble word is a
word which gives respect and honor to the
person who we talk to. “Thy Lord hath decreed
that ye worship none but him, and that ye be kind
to parents. Whether one or both of them attain
old age In Thy life, say not to them a word of
contempt, nor repel them, but address them In
terms of honor”. (QS. Al-Isra: 23)
7) In this case to say “ah” to parents is prohibited
by religion, moreover say the words or treated
them more harshly than that. From above
definitions, the characteristic of polite language
according to six principles are the words that
have a value: 1) the truth, 2) fairness, honesty,
3) justice, 4) good, 5) straight, 6) smooth, 7)
polite, 8) deserve, 9) awards, 10) solemn, 11)
optimistic, 12) beautiful, 13) fun, 14) logical,15)
eloquently, 16) light, 17) right, 18) touches the
heart, 19) aligned, 20) is impressive, 21) quiet,
22) effectively, 23) soft, 24) philanthropist, 25)
the meek, 26) humility.
2.4.2 Prophetic Model of Communication
Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h. in communication with
his companions r.a. appliying communication styles
which should be followed by each individual who
intent to guide others to become useful human in this
world and the afterlife (Jaafar & Tamuri, 2012). The
Prophetic communication styles, namely to cite the
general before the specific, deliver lessons clearly,
smoothly and completely, insert a word of advice,
make the analogy and comparison, inserting
humour, use the non-verbal communication and call
others with respectable calling (Ghuddah, 2001;
(Ulwan, 1968); (al-Hammadi, 1987); (al-Suwaid,
1988); (Jasmi & Tamuri, 2007); (al-Nahlawi, 1979);
(Saaran, 2010).
1) Citing the general before the specific: this
method is known as the deductive style. It is
more widely used in the classical or traditional
knowledge compared with modern knowledge
which use more inductive style. The Prophet
p.b.u.h. also uses this method during his
preachings and teachings to his companions.
Hadith narrated by al-Hakim (al-Mustadrak,
1990, hadith number 7846) that the Prophet
p.b.u.h. states which means “Grab five things
before five things to come: our youthful time
before our old days, our healthy moment before
our sick days, our rich time before our poor
days, our leisure time before our busy schedules
and our existence before our death”. Thus,
educational leader should start communication
with his colleague by relating the outline of what
will be discuss, and later to decide in sequence
the content according to the outline given to
collegeau earlier. This style also helps the mind
to process the data to be received so that
audiences can understand and remember what is
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