power, social contact, economy and even self-esteem
(Rachmawati & Listiyandini, 2014).
For some individuals, retirement is a negative life
experience, yet for others, retirement becomes a
positive life experience because they see it as growth
and development period, the important moment
related to lifestyle and opportunity to have fun
(Stephan, Evelyne & Fernandez, 2008). One who
retires could perceive serenity because one just
archives top of the carrier, not bare any duty given by
the institution or organization in which one works, as
the result one feels peace, relax, and happy (Lesmana,
2014). Pensioners could do various activities which
are previously unable to do, one is also able to enjoy
time with family (Santrock, 2011).
According to Atchley (in Santrock, 2002), there
are several phases of retirement as follows, first
honeymoon phase, the phase is characterized with
happy feeling because of free from routine and duty,
one starts to seek a new activity like doing some
hobbies and other things related to health, finance,
lifestyle, and family, second, disenchantment phase,
a pensioner in this phase begins to be depressed and
feels empty, for some individuals, feeling of losing,
either losing power, dignity, status, income, friends,
or some regulations. In this phase, pensioners who are
depressed will get into the reorientation phase, the
phase in which an individual start to develop a more
realistic perception about life alternative by seeking
new activities. Once reaching this phase, the
pensioners will get into the stability phase in which
they start to develop certain criteria related to
selecting an activity to make life better in the future.
Men and women are different in terms of
undergoing retirement. According to Hurlock (2009),
generally, women are better in undergoing retirement
than the men, their role does not radically change
because the women in some aspects always undergo
a domestic role either at pre-marriage or during
marriage, they even undergo the role as workers, in
workplace a few of psychological advantages and a
little of social support are obtained by the women thus
the retirement condition less raises trauma toward the
women, moreover, when they work, a few women
hold high position so that they have no power and
prestige to lose, the women also have more social
groups to spend spare time during retirement than the
men, in contrary the men only have a few replacing
sources which can result in satisfaction usually
obtained from the previous job, as the result,
retirement becomes a mental burden for the men.
Several issues related to individuals undergoing
retirement are a retirement plan, marriage status and
member of family's attitude, financial management,
mental condition, social life, acceptance on condition
and gratitude (Widyowati & Hadjam, 2012; Hurlock,
2009; Sudarilah, 2012). According to Benso (2005),
gratitude is the main pillar in achieving success in
retirement. Furthermore, Benso explains that being
grateful will create happiness naturally and share with
the social, spiritual community as well as with other
people.
Gratitude is thankful feeling and happiness by
accepting bounty either benefit seen from others or
peace which is born from natural beauty (Peterson &
Seligman, 2004). According to McCullough,
Emmons, and Tsang (2002), gratitude can emerge as
a trait, feeling, mood or emotion. Gratitude can be
defined as a general tendency to realize and respond
by gratitude emotion toward an individual's kindness
in a positive experience and what an individual
receives. Gratitude can be a solution to various life
problems and a way to get a peaceful mind,
happiness, physical health, and to improve
relationship and welfare (Emmons & McCullough,
2003).
Individuals with much gratitude will show
positive emotions like happiness, good health, hope
and will obtain satisfaction in life, meanwhile,
individuals with a little gratitude will have negative
emotions including anxiety, depression, and jealousy
or envy (McCullough, et al., 2002). Froh, Kashdan,
Ozimkowski, and Miller (2009) say that individuals
with gratitude will gain happiness, optimistic, and life
satisfaction.
Individual with gratitude tries to see a condition
which is experienced with more positive perspective
so that one feels no burden with the condition, one
even can be motivated to improve performance as
thankful feeling for the grace that one receives
(Cahyono, 2014). A retired civil servant experiences
the same thing, one used to work in a government
institution after one retires, one will experience a
different situation and condition, thus with gratitude,
the individual can see the future positively. As
explained by Wood, Joseph, Lloyd, and Atkins
(2009) that gratitude is a character from an individual
who has positive thinking and creates a better life.
Research by Kashdan, et al. (2009) showed that
there was a difference in revealing gratitude between
men and women especially in elderhood where
women were more grateful than men. Moreover,
Kashdan, et al explains that the high gratitude among
women is related to the improvement of social
relations and the freedom to achieve a goal as well as
being able to express feelings openly, the women also
intensely communicate toward each other verbally by
using a language that can improve their personal
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