other adults have less experience in overcoming the
roblems that faced by adolescence. This situation is
exacerbated by the stubborn nature of adolescents,
where they feel they can be self-reliant and want to
overcome their own problems, so that they refuse the
actual help they need from parents, teachers, and
other adults (Hurlock, 1980).
Havighurst also said that one of the important
developmental tasks that adolescence have to master
is to learn what the group expected from them and
then adjusted their behavior to fit the social
expectations without being tutored, supervised,
encouraged and threatened as a child (Hurlock,
1980).
The condition is exacerbated with the
increasingly "devastating" moral crisis attacking
Indonesian adolescence. Various cases of adolescent
moral deviations are increasingly marbling. Then the
question arises, is there a solution? What can be
done to overcome the various moral damages that
occur in the generation of the nation's successors?
Sianawati (1992) said that, the concept of moral
is usually based on religious education, whether
from parents, teachers, or other adult around the
environments. But ironically, in the present day, we
find the moral coaching in the core institution
(family) becoming degraded. Parents are getting
busy with working and sometimes forget the role
and function of moral education in the family.
The lack of moral education also occurs in
institutions such as school, community which are
also expected to be supporting system in educating
adolescence. Although there have been moral
lessons in the school such as Pancasila Moral
education and Islamic religious education, but still
not able to develop the ability of adolescence "Moral
reasoning". This is because the moral learning
methods in the school still tend to rely on the
unidirectional teaching Method (monologues) so as
to give students the opportunity to "test" the truth.
Though the process of sincerity of the situation and
the "testing" of truth is a process toward the
achievement of moral maturity and stimulated the
development of moral reasoning (Nashori, 1995).
Therefore, the better approach of moral education is
supposed to be done by emphasizing the
improvement of moral reasoning, not only the
knowledge itself.
Many countries have developed moral education
techniques that lead to increasing moral reasoning,
including moral discussions, moral training, and
moral simulations. Colby, Erits, and Kohlberg
(1974) reveal that moral discussions play a role in
stimulating increased moral reasoning.
In modern psychological terminology, moral
stimulation is a form of inter-individual activity that
combines elements of play and discussion, where
activities that have an element of the game are
always preferred (Nashori, 1995). Paul Suparno et al
(2002) presents four models of moral learning
delivery, namely; (1) Models as individual subjects,
(2) models integrated in all fields of study, (3)
models outside the teaching, and (4) combined
models.
The models outside of teaching can be done
through activities beyond teaching. This Model
prioritizes processing and moral planting through an
activity to discuss and analyze life's values. Students
deepen moral values through concrete experiences,
so that the moral values are embedded and
biodegraded in their lives. But if the implementation
of this kind of activity is only done once a year or
twice, then it is lacking optimal results. Such moral
learning must be routinely or intensively held
(Budiningsih, 2004).
In line with the opinion above, Paul Suparno et al
(2002) stated that another effective approach to
increase moral reasoning process is a model outside
the teaching, and then in this case there is a method
of coaching/education that meets the criteria, namely
Mentoring Islam. Widiyantoro (2003) says that there
are 3 main reasons explaining the importance of
mentoring Islam for adolescence are effective,
massif, and strategic.
So that the moral learning system and the
development process of moral reasoning with the
mentoring system can be used as an alternative
coaching for adolescence, because in the system
there are important elements of education, such as
curriculum (Manhaj), role model of the coach
(Uswah), good Environment (Bi'ah), and the
sustainability of the coaching process (istimroriyah).
These four elements are expected to assist and
increase the moral development process of the
adolescence.
2 LITERATURE REVIEW
2.1 Moral Reasoning
The moral development according to Kohlberg
evolved through certain stages. This stage of moral
reasoning is one of the factors that contribute to
determining one's moral behavior. Based on
empirical research conducted by Kohlberg in 1969,
he formulated the developmental stages of moral
reasoning, as follows (Papalia 2001):