the  surroundings  (family,  society)  are  like.  This 
highlights  the  upbringing  environment  of  the 
individual; how they are raised, where they are raised, 
when  they  are  raised,  whom  raised  them.  This 
suggests  that  the  social  construction  starts  from  the 
internal  environment,  or  on  the  other  words,  has 
already been applied to the individual from the early 
childhood  of  where  they  grow  up.  In  The Well of 
Loneliness  (1928),  the  unborn  main  character, 
Stephen, was always heavily expected to be a boy by 
the  father  and  leaving  the  mother worried for there 
was a chance that their first child in her womb might 
be a girl. The importance of having male first child 
shows  the  strong  patriarch  model.  Moreover,  they 
expressed  their  male-traditional  expectations  on  the 
unborn baby such as the wish to send ‘him’ abroad to 
study (Hall, 1928). Despite of having male posture, 
the traits are clear in childhood phase. She described 
as enjoying dressing up as a boy and stating “Yes, of 
course  I’m  a  boy”  followed  by  “I  must  be  a  boy, 
‘cause  I  feel  exactly  like  one.”  Although  Stephen 
could  not  tell  what  it  was  that  she  was  feeling,  the 
words ‘queer’ and ‘different’ are thrown behind her 
back. This gives  the idea of what  the society of  the 
norm thinks about a child like Stephen.  
If  The Well of Loneliness portrayed  ‘a  man 
trapped in a woman’s body’, the Laurence Anyways 
portrayed the other way around. Throughout the film, 
not only  the  audience can view a  transformation of 
the main character’s identity from male to female but 
also  the  changes  he  brought  to  himself  and  his 
surroundings. At the beginning of the film, Laurence 
started off as a ‘normal’ who, as a man, has a 
heterosexual relationship with a woman and does well 
in his job as a teacher. This social construction might 
be  the  cause  of  the  emergent  of  the  terms  ‘closet’. 
This idea of being inside a closet means to hide and 
not  reveal  their  true  gender/sexual  identity.  On  the 
other  hand,  a  person  who  comes  out  of  this  closet 
means they have let other people know that they are 
not what listed on the social construction. A person 
may be considered either closeted or coming out (of 
the closet) based on whatever the person declares or 
not (Rasmussen, 2004). Thus, this act of ‘coming out 
of  the  closet’  is  the  voice  and  independence  of  the 
individual. In her research done in the US, Rasmussen 
discovered  that  there  are  pressures  experienced  by 
closeted people to come out, including their racial and 
ethnic  background,  their  family’s  religious 
affiliations, and financial matters (Rasmussen, 2004). 
This  suggests  the  hardships  to  having  to  come  out 
declaring one’s true gender identity to the society. 
Both  Stephen  and  Laurence  are  on  the  same 
journey in seeking people’s acceptance toward them. 
Stephen’s  past  heartbreaking  relationships  with 
women  leave  her  careful  and  she  takes  everything 
slowly during her relationship with Mary. From this 
relationship, many social construction and acceptance 
are implied. There was one where Stephen and Mary 
were declined from a socialite party. Due to this kind 
of  event,  Stephen  pushed  Mary  away  to  have 
heterosexual relationship with a man. At  the end of 
the novel, Stephen’s last plea showed her with to be 
acknowledged  and  accepted  in  the  society.  With 
Laurence, he dealt  with  three specific environment: 
his personal relationship,  family matters, and work-
related issue. His identity is confirmed when he told 
Frederique the truth how he is disgusted by his manly 
posture and male genital for he wanted to live the life 
of the woman he was  born to be.  At the  end of the 
conversation, Laurence asked for her acceptance by 
asking her: ‘Do you hate me?” (Dolan, 2012). Similar 
conversation he had with his mother, ending it with 
the question: ‘Do you still love me?” (Dolan, 2012). 
The other forms of asking for acceptance came from 
the  interviewer  and  the  boy  next  door.  Laurence 
noticed that the interviewer never made eye contacts 
and she asked for one. When asked if it is important, 
he  analogised  it  with  the  importance  of  air  to  the 
lungs; while the boy next door to his new place blew 
a  kiss  and  Laurence  giggled  happily  (Dolan,  2012) 
suggesting  his  gender  confirmations  as  a  female  is 
found attractive. 
Literature  has  been  showing  the  reflection  of 
events  in  time.  The  difference  between  these  two 
literary works spanning almost a century is that in the 
early 20th century, the social construction of the norm 
was too strong that perversion was seen as a desease 
and not welcomed; whereas in the early 21st century 
perversion is taken as newness that social acceptance 
of perverts is in mixed reviews. This difference leads 
to the conclusion that there are indeed shifts 
happening  within  those  timespan  in  terms  of  the 
reaction,  either  rejection  or  acceptance,  from  the 
society toward perversion and the perverts. 
3.2  Reflection in Social Media Today 
YouTube is one of the biggest social media platforms 
where people can share videos with the duration upto 
2  hours  for  the  netizen  (citizen  of  the  internet)  to 
watch. YouTube has  four  important features: share, 
like,  comment,  and  subscribe.  These  feature  let  the 
information or  in this  case, videos, to travel fast. In 
regards to gender conformity and social acceptance, 
YouTube has been used as a tool for people to come 
out of  the closet. According  to  the  Huffington Post 
that summed a brief history of the “YouTube Coming