the surroundings (family, society) are like. This
highlights the upbringing environment of the
individual; how they are raised, where they are raised,
when they are raised, whom raised them. This
suggests that the social construction starts from the
internal environment, or on the other words, has
already been applied to the individual from the early
childhood of where they grow up. In The Well of
Loneliness (1928), the unborn main character,
Stephen, was always heavily expected to be a boy by
the father and leaving the mother worried for there
was a chance that their first child in her womb might
be a girl. The importance of having male first child
shows the strong patriarch model. Moreover, they
expressed their male-traditional expectations on the
unborn baby such as the wish to send ‘him’ abroad to
study (Hall, 1928). Despite of having male posture,
the traits are clear in childhood phase. She described
as enjoying dressing up as a boy and stating “Yes, of
course I’m a boy” followed by “I must be a boy,
‘cause I feel exactly like one.” Although Stephen
could not tell what it was that she was feeling, the
words ‘queer’ and ‘different’ are thrown behind her
back. This gives the idea of what the society of the
norm thinks about a child like Stephen.
If The Well of Loneliness portrayed ‘a man
trapped in a woman’s body’, the Laurence Anyways
portrayed the other way around. Throughout the film,
not only the audience can view a transformation of
the main character’s identity from male to female but
also the changes he brought to himself and his
surroundings. At the beginning of the film, Laurence
started off as a ‘normal’ who, as a man, has a
heterosexual relationship with a woman and does well
in his job as a teacher. This social construction might
be the cause of the emergent of the terms ‘closet’.
This idea of being inside a closet means to hide and
not reveal their true gender/sexual identity. On the
other hand, a person who comes out of this closet
means they have let other people know that they are
not what listed on the social construction. A person
may be considered either closeted or coming out (of
the closet) based on whatever the person declares or
not (Rasmussen, 2004). Thus, this act of ‘coming out
of the closet’ is the voice and independence of the
individual. In her research done in the US, Rasmussen
discovered that there are pressures experienced by
closeted people to come out, including their racial and
ethnic background, their family’s religious
affiliations, and financial matters (Rasmussen, 2004).
This suggests the hardships to having to come out
declaring one’s true gender identity to the society.
Both Stephen and Laurence are on the same
journey in seeking people’s acceptance toward them.
Stephen’s past heartbreaking relationships with
women leave her careful and she takes everything
slowly during her relationship with Mary. From this
relationship, many social construction and acceptance
are implied. There was one where Stephen and Mary
were declined from a socialite party. Due to this kind
of event, Stephen pushed Mary away to have
heterosexual relationship with a man. At the end of
the novel, Stephen’s last plea showed her with to be
acknowledged and accepted in the society. With
Laurence, he dealt with three specific environment:
his personal relationship, family matters, and work-
related issue. His identity is confirmed when he told
Frederique the truth how he is disgusted by his manly
posture and male genital for he wanted to live the life
of the woman he was born to be. At the end of the
conversation, Laurence asked for her acceptance by
asking her: ‘Do you hate me?” (Dolan, 2012). Similar
conversation he had with his mother, ending it with
the question: ‘Do you still love me?” (Dolan, 2012).
The other forms of asking for acceptance came from
the interviewer and the boy next door. Laurence
noticed that the interviewer never made eye contacts
and she asked for one. When asked if it is important,
he analogised it with the importance of air to the
lungs; while the boy next door to his new place blew
a kiss and Laurence giggled happily (Dolan, 2012)
suggesting his gender confirmations as a female is
found attractive.
Literature has been showing the reflection of
events in time. The difference between these two
literary works spanning almost a century is that in the
early 20th century, the social construction of the norm
was too strong that perversion was seen as a desease
and not welcomed; whereas in the early 21st century
perversion is taken as newness that social acceptance
of perverts is in mixed reviews. This difference leads
to the conclusion that there are indeed shifts
happening within those timespan in terms of the
reaction, either rejection or acceptance, from the
society toward perversion and the perverts.
3.2 Reflection in Social Media Today
YouTube is one of the biggest social media platforms
where people can share videos with the duration upto
2 hours for the netizen (citizen of the internet) to
watch. YouTube has four important features: share,
like, comment, and subscribe. These feature let the
information or in this case, videos, to travel fast. In
regards to gender conformity and social acceptance,
YouTube has been used as a tool for people to come
out of the closet. According to the Huffington Post
that summed a brief history of the “YouTube Coming