This is also related to research by Mazzona et
al. (2009), which says that thalassemia children tend
to experience high emotional temperament and poor
socialization. Researchers argue that emotional
symptoms in thalassemia children do tend to be
more emotional, as evidenced by research showing
an abnormal category of 74.4%, because sufferers
feel different from others, and there are still people
who think thalassemia is an infectious disease.
Based on table 3 it was found that behaviour
problems in children with thalassemia in Aceh are in
an abnormal category (76.9%). It is on-going
opposing behaviour without serious violations of
social norms or the rights of others. This behaviour
problem is a difficult problem often shown by
children such as hitting, fighting, mocking, refusing
to obey other people's requests (Istiqomah, 2017).
According to Rescorla et al. (2007) as cited in
Halimah, Allendekania, & Fajar T W (2016), the
next behaviour change that occurs is the problem of
decreasing attention. The risk of this problem is
influenced by gender, ethnicity, and mother's
education, adolescents with male sex increase the
risk of decreasing attention.
The results of the study found that many children
had behavioral changes starting from facing down
when the researcher invites to speak, and looks very
nervous. This is in line with the research of Riyana,
& Riza (2017) which says that thalassemia children
experience behavioral disorders as much as 73.3%.
Another study by Halimah, Allendekania, &
Waluyanti (2016) says that adolescent boys with
thalassemia have a higher risk of experiencing
behavioral problems such as anxiety problems,
social problems, and problems with less attention.
Although, it does not rule out that behavioral
problems could also occur in adolescent girls. Other
factors that increase the risk of behavioral changes
are the ethnicity, multi transfusion, maternal
education, and the involvement of next of kin and
relatives.
Based on the table 3, peer relationships in
thalassemia children is in the abnormal category
(59.0%). Children are less able to socialize with
their peers both at home and at school. The difficulty
of children in socializing often makes children less
accepted by their peers. This could limit the children
in interacting actively within their peers (Istiqomah,
2017). The results of the study found that many
thalassemia children have poor relationships with
their surroundings or peers. This is inherent with the
research of Maghfiroh et al. (2014), who said that
almost half of thalassemia children had low feelings
of being accepted in a friendship environment. Thus,
self-esteem is obtained from one self and social
interaction with peers. Individuals will feel high
self-esteem if they often experience success.
However, there are influencing factors such as
parents and peers that greatly affect the development
of self-esteem. If children have good peers, they
could increase their self-esteem.
Researchers argue that the social environment
has a relationship with peers. Therefore, the
difficulty of socializing often makes children less
accepted by their peers. This study showed an
abnormal category of 59% for peer relation aspect of
the children with thalassemia. The most important
thing about peer groups is to provide sources of
information and comparisons about the world
outside the family, peer interactions that have their
peer to play a special role in socio emotional
development.
Researchers argue that many children tend to be
more silent and unwilling to play; this is evidenced
by the results of the study showing 84.6% abnormal
categories in hyperactivity disorder. Although
thalassemia children are not allowed to overact,
nurses should provide counselling about child
development, starting from motoric training and
playing according to their age, but within limits they
do not force children to play excessively. The
researcher found that many thalassemia children
who are not able to move much and prefer to be
quiet, if they play only briefly but not too much
because the child is easily weakened. This is in line
with the research of Fetriyah, et. Al (2016), which
explains that most mothers regulate children's daily
activities. This is so that rest and activity remain
balanced, so that the mother gives direction to the
child to rest because if you do too much activity and
lack of rest will affect Haemoglobin levels in the
blood and can affect health in general.
The condition of children with thalassemia also
affected the relationship with their families. It could
potentially interfere with their welfare as individuals
and disrupt their functioning socially. The research
conducted by Indanah (2010), found that prosocial
behaviour plays an important role in psychosocial
support from family and peers. The family play a
role by helping to control the behaviour of children
facing physical and psychological changes. Indanah
said only 59% of respondents reported getting peer
support. Prosocial support and behaviour are mostly
indicated by the involvement of friends in social
activities that do not drain the child's energy.
Researchers argue that there are still many children
who lack of prosocial relationships with their peers.
This is evidenced by the results of this study